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Quaker statement on Donald Trump’s proposal to take over Gaza

5 February 2025

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Quakers are horrified by Donald Trump’s proposal to take over and own Gaza and ethnically cleanse two million Palestinians, photo credit: Hosny Salah from Pixabay

Quakers are horrified by Donald Trump’s proposal to “take over” and “own” Gaza and ethnically cleanse two million Palestinians.

These proposals come after a decades-long occupation which has already crossed numerous legal and moral red lines. A further “announcement” on the West Bank is expected within the next four weeks.

These threats must be taken seriously. Any attempt to implement them would be a grave violation of international law. Any move by the UK government or others to normalise or enable them would be a grave violation of international law.

Quakers and partners are actively engaged in the region and in the UK to end our government’s complicity and end the occupation of Palestine.

Find out more about our work to bring about a just peace in Palestine and Israel

Better understanding the Israel Palestine conflict and recent events

We have all been shocked and moved by the current situation in Gaza. BLYM does not wish to make a public statement on this situation at the current time but simply to try to gain a better understanding . Here are some links that Friends have suggested:

https://upjb.be/crimes-de-guerre-et-crimes-contre-lhumanite-en-israel-palestine-halte-aux-deux-poids-deux-mesures/

https://www.jewishvoiceforpeace.org/2023/10/statement23-10-07/.

https://shorturl.at/nsJMW

BLYM Residential Yearly Meeting Update 2021

Dear Friends,

The BLYM Residential Yearly Meeting has been postponed until 2022.

Our theme is:

Community, Compassion and Unity

There will be two guest speakers:


Jennifer KavanaghJennifer Kavanagh has been a Quaker for twenty-five years. She lives in London and attends Westminster meeting. Since leaving her publishing career of some thirty years, she has run a community centre in London’s East End, worked with street homeless people and refugees, set up microcredit programmes in London and several African countries, and worked as a research associate for the Prison Reform Trust. She spent many years facilitating conflict resolution workshops for Alternatives to Violence (AVP), both in prison and in the community.

Jennifer is an associate tutor for Woodbrooke Quaker Study Centre. She gives talks and runs workshops and retreats on aspects of the Spirit-led life. She is the author of two novels, ten books of non-fiction, and two games.

Balancing an active life with a pull towards contemplation is a continuing and fruitful challenge. 

She will present the first session:

 “Existence is an intricately interconnected web of relationships. We share the breath of life and thus we are connected.” (Satish Kumar)

This first session will take the form of a talk: a personal and spiritual overview of the topic of community, compassion and unity. About our uniqueness and diversity, and our interconnectedness, both in our human communities and with the rest of the created world. And how Unity is ultimately found in the Divine, our diversity both embraced by that oneness and an expression of it.

Followed by a time for Q&A 

Edwina PeartEdwina Peart is the diversity and inclusion coordinator for BYM. She has been in post since 2018 and has organised two national gatherings and held many workshops and provided learning opportunities with local and area meetings, committees and staff groups. She has wide and varied experience of equality and justice work in both local and international contexts and has a background in research, education and health. She favours an intersectional approach that prioritises lived experience whilst recognising the constraints of structures and institutions that regulate and mediate modern life.

This is how Edwina describes her individual session:

This session will be interactive and practical. I want to look at what community, compassion and unity (and their absence) looks and feels like in faith groups and the wider society. To do this I will draw on contemporary examples that resonate locally and globally. My current thinking is around refugees, nationality and ethnicity, and covid. Participants will likely be asked to participate in group work, possibly pairs. There will be specific questions/activities probing what Quakers with a faith-based approach can contribute and where they may need help.

They will present two joint sessions:

We will explore in pairs, groups and plenary the themes of community and belonging. What is community? Is it growing or stagnant? Outward-facing and inclusive, or inward-facing and excluding? Where do we belong? Why do we belong? What role does choice, default or intention play? What is the role of others?

Unity: how we can accept our diversity as human beings and embrace our interconnectedness. How we can find the unity of the Divine and express it in our lives.

Games, texts, solo activities, visuals and meditation may be used, Leading into Meeting for Worship.

The weekend will also be an opportunity to meet up with Friends we have not seen for a long time and join in some fun activities.

Anne Stone, Phil Gaskell, Jeannette Delgado-Holdsworth & John Williams

BLYM Social Evening 30 April

BLYM held another social evening on Friday 30th April 2021. The main part of the evening was Part 2 of the Belgium Quiz, this time including some tough questions on Luxembourg. Thanks go to Richard Condon’s work as Quizmaster and Janice Thompson for the Roadtrip song section and all who contributed to the evening.

The participants also contributed their favourite Roadtrip songs which are available on the Spotify and YouTube playlists below.

We welcome ideas for the next Zoom Social Evening and can’t wait to hold a face to face social event when the easing of COVID restrictions allows.

Leave suggestions on the Contact Us page.


Activités pour les Quakers francophones

Les Quakers francophones se retrouvent souvent soit dans des groupes où la langue majoritairement utilisée est l’anglais, soit isolé(e)s. Ils/elles sont aussi géographiquement éparpillé(e)s sur plusieurs pays (et donc assemblées annuelles) — la France, la Suisse, le Canada, la Belgique, le Luxembourg, le Congo, etc.

Depuis l’arrivée de la pandémie, une poignée de Quakers francophones a fait l’expérience de rencontres en ligne (groupes de discussion, présentations historiques, cultes de partage) destinées aux Quakers dont la langue maternelle est le français. Pour le moment, ce sont essentiellement les membres des groupes Quakers de Toulouse et de Genève qui organisent ces activités. Cependant, pour que ces événements fleurissent, il faut informer et attirer des Quakers francophones d’autres régions. 

Dans un premier temps, je me suis proposée pour évaluer l’intérêt pour des activités virtuelles en français parmi les Quakers en Belgique et Luxembourg. Si cela vous intéresse, pourriez-vous m’envoyer un mail en indiquant si vous aimeriez:
1) Être informé(e) des activités en ligne pour les Quakers francophones
2) Éventuellement organiser des activités en ligne en français pour les Quakers francophones

Pour information:
Les Quakers de Genève vont organisersur Zoom le mercredi, 17 mars 2021 entre Quaker House, Geneva18h30 et 20h, un culte de recueillement de 30 minutes suivi d’une discussion d’une heure en français et en anglais du “lexique Quaker” (les termes et les méthodes Quakers). Ouvert à tout le monde. Détails à suivre.

Les Quakers de Toulouse vont organiser, également sur Zoom, une discussion uniquement en français le dimanche, 4 avril 2021 de 9h30 à 10h20 sur “comment vivez-vous la spiritualité avec les autres”. Malheureusement, ceci est est limité à 12 personnes, de préférences des francophones qui ont découvert le Quakerisme récemment. Si cela vous intéresse, veuillez contacter Les Quakers de Toulouse pour réserver votre place et obtenir les codes d’accès.

Amitiés,
Janice

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BLYM Quakers Social Evening: Belgian Quiz Night

We held a Quiz Night titled  “BLYM Belgian pub quiz (without the pub)” on Friday 5th March 2021. Richard hosted, asked the questions and then explained the answers, in English, Dutch and French. We thank Richard for making the night welcoming in three different languages and for bringing the proceedings to life. The quiz explored our knowledge of Belgium posing questions about cuisine, some culture, art and a little politics and history. We discovered some of the more entertaining aspects of this little country. Many of us enjoyed the evening after being locked down for so long.

Jan’s knowledge of his home country seems to be excellent and he was duly declared the winner. He is the one setting the pace for the next quiz.

Quiz nights are an opportunity to meet up socially, albeit on Zoom. It is hoped that we can run more social evenings, which will for the time being will be hosted on Zoom. We long to be able to meet up in person in the not too distant future.

We hope to hold another quiz night in the next few weeks. If you have any entertaining questions (preferably not too difficult) about Belgium that you’d be happy to donate to the social cause, then please forward them to any of the BLYM Oversight Group, namely Jeanette, Janice or John

Suggestions for other types of social evenings that we can arrange using Zoom will also be very welcome. Please contact one of the Oversight Group with your thoughts and ideas or leave a comment below.

Thoughts During Corona Time

These texts were written during the 2020 Covid-19 pandemic – an unprecedented time of loss. Millions of people around the world lost loved ones, many have lost their livelihoods and most of us lost the freedom to live our lives as normal. But many of us also found more time to reflect on our lives, our priorities and what a better future might look like.

We all had to adapt to unprecedented circumstances and Friends have been no exception. We moved to virtual forms of gathering which brought unexpectedly positive experiences but also challenges of worshipping via technological tools.

All of these experiences have inspired this collection of writings and we hope that it will grow.

If you wish to share one or all of the texts with friends, please contact the Clerk of BLYM (quakerclerk@gmail.com) out of courtesy to those whose texts they are.

Should you feel moved to share your own experiences, please contact the Clerk likewise.

More Reflections From Corona Time

This pandemic and lockdown have been terrible, we all know that, even if we haven’t
lost anyone as a result. It’s also been a welcome step back from the usual rush of life
and that has something to teach many of us, though we may not realise it. But, if we
stand back from the human emotions for a moment, there is more to consider; what
an amazing example it is of connectedness.
For much of the time we feel so remote from other people, especially those
geographically far away. Corona time has given us a different experience. Earlier
pandemics have taken a long time to travel round the globe: back in the European
Middle Age, it took the Bubonic Plague, often called the Black Death, more than 25
years to arrive in Europe from its origins in China; the so-called ‘Spanish’ flu towards
the end of the First World War travelled much more rapidly, but the corona virus
seems to have spread around the world in a matter of weeks. How amazing it is to
think that sometime last autumn a bat in central China passed on this virus to
another animal, perhaps a pangolin and then transmission took place to its first
human victim. Since then the virus has been passed on to more than 7 million
people; a real success story for this newcomer to life on earth. How connected we all
are; how close to each other we are – person to person, we are all in the web of life.
That is not the only aspect of connectedness that the pandemic has thrown up. We
humans, in various degrees of isolation, have felt the need to reach out to each other
at a rate that is rarely seen. I’m not sure if there are any statistics on this, but I can
say in my own case, that the number of text messages, emails, phone calls, Skype
conversations has certainly at least doubled over the last three months. Quakers
among other groups have taken to cyberspace in unprecedented numbers and many
now attend Meetings for Worship on several continents on a weekly basis. Once
again, how very connected we are and largely without damage to the environment.
Travelling is not always necessary and, of course, has never been available to many
who are not able to pay the still heavy cost of frequent international travel. There are
positive outcomes for the environment as well as for our connectedness as a human
community.
So, what about our small Quaker community in Belgium and Luxembourg, whose
official title has almost as many letters as we have members? We, in Brussels, have
always regretted the sense of remoteness from the Meeting in Luxembourg and now
from the growing Meeting in Ghent – forgive the English spelling, but a Flemish
Friend recently pointed out to me that in an English text, Gent might be
misunderstood. Of course, Luxembourg and Ghent are as far from Brussels as
Brussels is from the other two cities, but capital-city dwellers are always resistant to
travel out to smaller places while regretting the fact that they do not come to ‘us’;
we’re in the Heart of Europe after all! Brussels Quakers are certainly guilty of that; I
am no exception and for this I apologise. Even further afield than the territory of our
YM, we have members and former attenders elsewhere – in York in the UK, near
Seattle in the USA to mention just two, and these can now also be familiar faces on
a weekly basis. The new connectedness is a gift to us as we can now build
community all year long, not just see each other, perhaps, once a year at the
residential Yearly Meeting and whisper to another Friend, ‘I know her face, but can
you remind me of her name?’
Phil Gaskell
9 June 2020

Update on Yearly Meeting 2020

Version française ci-dessous / Nederlandse versie hieronder

Hello Friends,

This is to give you an update from your 2020 Yearly Meeting planning committee. As you know, we will meet over the weekend of Oct 9-11.

We have been investigating the possibility of holding a ‘hybrid’ or ‘blended’ meeting, with some participants at Quaker House and others participating via Zoom.  We have decided not to do that. Instead we will hold the 2020 YM exclusively on Zoom, for the following reasons:

  1. The equipment cost for a hybrid meting is high. We have spoken to people who have organized hybrid meetings and looked at a couple of ways to do it technically. Both are expensive. Additionally, we have learned that the time to learn the equipment and to set it up before each meeting so that it works is prohibitive.
  2. Given the probable distancing requirements at QH, most Friends would have to participate online in any case. The physical layout of QH will most likely make line of sight for cameras difficult.
  3. Experience with hybrid meetings is that they feel very much like two groups, with some participants feeling more ‘present’ than others. It is hard to feel like a unified group.

We will therefore continue our planning focusing on using Zoom in a way that allows us to break into small groups as needed, as much involvement as possible from Friends locally and from other locations and sufficient breaks that we do not get Zoom overload.

We ask that you uphold us in this difficult task and we look forward to your participation in our YM.

Registration details will follow in mid-August.

In Friendship,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally

Chers Amis,

Ce message sert à faire le point sur la planification de la “Réunion Annuelle” (YM) de 2020. Comme vous le savez, nous nous réunirons le week-end du 9 au 11 octobre.

Nous avons étudié la possibilité de tenir une réunion «hybride» ou «mixte», avec certains participants au “Quaker House” (QH) et d’autres via Zoom. Nous avons décidé de ne pas faire cela, mais nous organiserons le YM 2020 exclusivement sur Zoom, pour les raisons suivantes:

  1. Le coût de l’équipement pour une rencontre hybride est élevé. Nous avons parlé à des gens qui ont organisé des réunions hybrides et examiné deux façons de procéder techniquement. Les deux sont chers. De plus, nous avons appris que le temps d’apprendre le matériel et de le mettre en place avant chaque réunion pour qu’il fonctionne est prohibitif.
  2. Compte tenu des exigences de distanciation probables au QH, la plupart des Amis devraient participer en ligne de toute façon. La disposition du QH rendra très probablement la ligne de vue des caméras difficile.
  3. L’expérience des réunions hybrides montre qu’elles ressemblent beaucoup à deux groupes avec certains participants se sentant plus «présents» que d’autres. Il est difficile de se sentir comme un groupe unifié.

Nous poursuivrons donc notre planification en nous concentrant sur l’utilisation de Zoom d’une manière qui nous permet d’avoir des séances en petits groupes, autant d’implication que possible des amis localement et d’autres endroits et des pauses suffisantes pour que nous n’aurions pas de surcharge de Zoom.

Nous vous demandons de nous soutenir dans cette tâche difficile et nous nous réjouissons de votre participation à notre YM.

Les détails de l’inscription suivront vers mi-août.

En Amitié,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally

Dag Vrienden,

Met dit schrijven willen we als voorbereidend comité een update geven voor de jaarvergadering van dit jaar.

Zoals jullie weten, ontmoeten we elkaar in het weekend van 9-11 oktober. We hebben de mogelijkheid onderzocht om een ​​‘hybride’ of ‘gemengde’ bijeenkomst te houden, waarbij sommige deelnemers  vanuit het Quaker House en anderen via Zoom zouden deelnemen. We hebben uiteindelijk echter besloten om dat niet te doen. In plaats daarvan houden we de jaarvergadering exclusief via Zoom, om de volgende redenen:

1. De apparatuurkosten voor een hybride meeting zijn hoog. We hebben gesproken met mensen die ervaring hebben met dit soort bijeenkomsten en ook hebben we gekeken naar wat er technisch allemaal georganiseerd zou moeten worden om zo’n meeting mogelijk te maken. Er blijkt ene tamelijk grote financiële investering nodig te zijn en bovendien hebben we geleerd dat een goede technische voorbereiding van een dergelijke vergadering zeer tijdsintensief (waarbij het onzeker blijft of het resultaat technisch gezien wel goed genoeg zal zijn voor een geslaagde jaarvergadering).

2. Gezien de waarschijnlijke afstandsvereisten in het Quaker House, zouden de meeste Vrienden sowieso online moeten deelnemen. De ruimtelijke indeling van het gebouw zal het bovendien zeer moeilijk maken om kamera’s zo op te stellen dat iedereen goed zichtbaar is.

3. De ervaring die al is opgedaan met hybride meetings leert dat ze er al snel toe leiden dat mensen het gevoel hebben dat er twee groepen aan de meetings deelnemen (de online groep en de fysiek aanwezige groep), waarbij sommige deelnemers zich meer ‘aanwezig’ voelen dan andere. Het is moeilijk om je als groep in die omstandigheden als een eenheid te voelen.

We zullen om deze redenen verder gaan met onze planning om de jaarvergadering via Zoom te organiseren. We willen daarbij ook van zogeheten ‘break-out-sessies’ gebruikmaken, waardoor gesprekken in kleinere groepen mogelijk zijn, en hopen zoveel mogelijk Vrienden van lokale groepen en van verder weg bij de jaarvergadering te betrekken. 

We vragen jullie steun bij deze niet zo gemakkelijke taak en we kijken uit naar je deelname aan deze jaarvergadering.

De registratiegegevens volgen midden Augustus.

In vriendschap,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally

Coping in Corona Times

Friends – 

I send greetings to you in your home from all of us in our home nearby Quaker House in Brussels. Our family is all together, since Frieda and Esther came home from their studies abroad. After two months together, I’m happy to say that “All’s well.” This is new for all of us, but we’re coping. My wife has full time tele-work every week day at her desk in our family room. Ben, 13, has had full-time school from the first day of “Corona Time.” His school arranged that all teachers have contact with all students on the same schedule they had in “real school.” We are grateful that we have the space, computers, and many other resources to help us get by.

Being closed in by four walls I’ve also had to face challenges to my physical and mental health and well-being. While no one I know has had COVID19, it’s not far away. And the consequences of confinement are impacting all of us.  There were two deaths in our children’s social circles and no one knew what to do to comfort the grieving. 

The confinement was really affecting my mood. I started paying more attention to how I was feeling, and noticing that I had some “good days” and some “bad days”. 

So when it was clear that confinement would continue for some time, I worked out a programme that includes daily walks or bike rides, usually with a family member, checking on friends & neighbours, keeping to a schedule, doing something, especially things that “only I can do” as a parent, neighbor, residents’ group member, etc.

Doing this helps me appreciate each day, or feel useful, and social. Get out, breathe fresh air. See the sunshine, sunset, moonrise. Venus was very bright. With family, walking gives us some quality time, and a chance to talk one-to-one. At neighbours’ doorsteps I’ve learned that there’s almost no COVID19 in our area. That’s reassuring. Some like parts of the confinement, and want to see them continue, such as the reduced work stress, working from home, the reduced traffic and safer streets…

I’ve also paid attention to all of the work that people are doing, to help others and themselves cope with the situation. Many Friends have been working hard to adjust to Corona times: for example, the many Quaker Zoom Meetings, for worship, reading & study groups, group videos, and worship sharing. New initiatives like Quaker Meals on Wheels were set up to deal with specific needs. Other adaptations were made to allow work to continue as much as possible. BLYM ‘officers’ have been working hard on every part of our Meeting: clerks, elders, finance, oversight, residential planning, and more. I see this kind of action, good will and cooperation also happening at many other levels: neighbourhood, community, city, country and even international level.

While some leaders get attention for bad behavior, I prefer to focus on the ones who are working for the common good, like the EU head who organized pledges of billions of euros for the development of vaccines to be available for every country. While there are so many uncertainties and good reasons to worry, I try to focus on facts, scientific, political and social. That includes the fact that researchers are sharing their information widely and scientific publishers have dropped paywalls. Experts have said “We’ve never learned so much so fast about any disease in human history”. I see that the responses to Corona show that governments CAN take ‘radical’ action and people WILL follow new rules when it’s clear that it’s needed. These things give me hope for the future. Even while my daughters don’t know if they can go back to university in September, I’m asking the City for permission to close our street for our annual Charles Quint Street Party. In September. Maybe we won’t be able to do it. Maybe very few will want to come. But I’m hopeful and planning for better days. I hope you are too.

Go well friends

Randy Rzewnicki, 13 May 2020