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Belgium and Luxembourg Quakers Monthly Cause March 2021

The Belgium and Luxembourg Quakers Monthly Cause for March 2021will be Friends House Moscow. Working in Russia and its neighbouring countries, it is an initiative of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers). It’s mission is to foster Quaker spiritual values. Friends House Moscow provides training in alternatives to violence and conflict resolution, promotes alternatives to military service, protects the rights of underprivileged groups and individuals and supports seekers interested in Quaker Faith and Practice. Friends House Moscow also conducts outreach in the Russian language.

Friends House Moscow

We invite Friends (members and attenders) to recommend a Monthly Cause in order to receive matching funds from the Meeting. 

Matching funds will only be available for causes in which members or attenders are actively involved. These members should be taking part in the activities or projects of the Cause. Please send your recommendations to the BLYM Fundraiser.

The account details for Donations to Belgium and Luxemburg Yearly Meeting are:

  • Account Name: Quakers BLMM
  • IBAN: BE76 9794 2781 7895     BIC: ARSP BE22

A Donation to any Monthly Cause you can made to the same account. but please specify in the bank transfer comments section that the donation is for the “Monthly Cause”.

We encourage recommendations for April 2021 and beyond.



If you would like to donate to the Belgium and Luxembourg Yearly Meeting funds. you will find more information on our donations page .

Thoughts During Corona Time

These texts were written during the 2020 Covid-19 pandemic – an unprecedented time of loss. Millions of people around the world lost loved ones, many have lost their livelihoods and most of us lost the freedom to live our lives as normal. But many of us also found more time to reflect on our lives, our priorities and what a better future might look like.

We all had to adapt to unprecedented circumstances and Friends have been no exception. We moved to virtual forms of gathering which brought unexpectedly positive experiences but also challenges of worshipping via technological tools.

All of these experiences have inspired this collection of writings and we hope that it will grow.

If you wish to share one or all of the texts with friends, please contact the Clerk of BLYM (quakerclerk@gmail.com) out of courtesy to those whose texts they are.

Should you feel moved to share your own experiences, please contact the Clerk likewise.

More Reflections From Corona Time

This pandemic and lockdown have been terrible, we all know that, even if we haven’t
lost anyone as a result. It’s also been a welcome step back from the usual rush of life
and that has something to teach many of us, though we may not realise it. But, if we
stand back from the human emotions for a moment, there is more to consider; what
an amazing example it is of connectedness.
For much of the time we feel so remote from other people, especially those
geographically far away. Corona time has given us a different experience. Earlier
pandemics have taken a long time to travel round the globe: back in the European
Middle Age, it took the Bubonic Plague, often called the Black Death, more than 25
years to arrive in Europe from its origins in China; the so-called ‘Spanish’ flu towards
the end of the First World War travelled much more rapidly, but the corona virus
seems to have spread around the world in a matter of weeks. How amazing it is to
think that sometime last autumn a bat in central China passed on this virus to
another animal, perhaps a pangolin and then transmission took place to its first
human victim. Since then the virus has been passed on to more than 7 million
people; a real success story for this newcomer to life on earth. How connected we all
are; how close to each other we are – person to person, we are all in the web of life.
That is not the only aspect of connectedness that the pandemic has thrown up. We
humans, in various degrees of isolation, have felt the need to reach out to each other
at a rate that is rarely seen. I’m not sure if there are any statistics on this, but I can
say in my own case, that the number of text messages, emails, phone calls, Skype
conversations has certainly at least doubled over the last three months. Quakers
among other groups have taken to cyberspace in unprecedented numbers and many
now attend Meetings for Worship on several continents on a weekly basis. Once
again, how very connected we are and largely without damage to the environment.
Travelling is not always necessary and, of course, has never been available to many
who are not able to pay the still heavy cost of frequent international travel. There are
positive outcomes for the environment as well as for our connectedness as a human
community.
So, what about our small Quaker community in Belgium and Luxembourg, whose
official title has almost as many letters as we have members? We, in Brussels, have
always regretted the sense of remoteness from the Meeting in Luxembourg and now
from the growing Meeting in Ghent – forgive the English spelling, but a Flemish
Friend recently pointed out to me that in an English text, Gent might be
misunderstood. Of course, Luxembourg and Ghent are as far from Brussels as
Brussels is from the other two cities, but capital-city dwellers are always resistant to
travel out to smaller places while regretting the fact that they do not come to ‘us’;
we’re in the Heart of Europe after all! Brussels Quakers are certainly guilty of that; I
am no exception and for this I apologise. Even further afield than the territory of our
YM, we have members and former attenders elsewhere – in York in the UK, near
Seattle in the USA to mention just two, and these can now also be familiar faces on
a weekly basis. The new connectedness is a gift to us as we can now build
community all year long, not just see each other, perhaps, once a year at the
residential Yearly Meeting and whisper to another Friend, ‘I know her face, but can
you remind me of her name?’
Phil Gaskell
9 June 2020

Update on Yearly Meeting 2020

Version française ci-dessous / Nederlandse versie hieronder

Hello Friends,

This is to give you an update from your 2020 Yearly Meeting planning committee. As you know, we will meet over the weekend of Oct 9-11.

We have been investigating the possibility of holding a ‘hybrid’ or ‘blended’ meeting, with some participants at Quaker House and others participating via Zoom.  We have decided not to do that. Instead we will hold the 2020 YM exclusively on Zoom, for the following reasons:

  1. The equipment cost for a hybrid meting is high. We have spoken to people who have organized hybrid meetings and looked at a couple of ways to do it technically. Both are expensive. Additionally, we have learned that the time to learn the equipment and to set it up before each meeting so that it works is prohibitive.
  2. Given the probable distancing requirements at QH, most Friends would have to participate online in any case. The physical layout of QH will most likely make line of sight for cameras difficult.
  3. Experience with hybrid meetings is that they feel very much like two groups, with some participants feeling more ‘present’ than others. It is hard to feel like a unified group.

We will therefore continue our planning focusing on using Zoom in a way that allows us to break into small groups as needed, as much involvement as possible from Friends locally and from other locations and sufficient breaks that we do not get Zoom overload.

We ask that you uphold us in this difficult task and we look forward to your participation in our YM.

Registration details will follow in mid-August.

In Friendship,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally

Chers Amis,

Ce message sert à faire le point sur la planification de la “Réunion Annuelle” (YM) de 2020. Comme vous le savez, nous nous réunirons le week-end du 9 au 11 octobre.

Nous avons étudié la possibilité de tenir une réunion «hybride» ou «mixte», avec certains participants au “Quaker House” (QH) et d’autres via Zoom. Nous avons décidé de ne pas faire cela, mais nous organiserons le YM 2020 exclusivement sur Zoom, pour les raisons suivantes:

  1. Le coût de l’équipement pour une rencontre hybride est élevé. Nous avons parlé à des gens qui ont organisé des réunions hybrides et examiné deux façons de procéder techniquement. Les deux sont chers. De plus, nous avons appris que le temps d’apprendre le matériel et de le mettre en place avant chaque réunion pour qu’il fonctionne est prohibitif.
  2. Compte tenu des exigences de distanciation probables au QH, la plupart des Amis devraient participer en ligne de toute façon. La disposition du QH rendra très probablement la ligne de vue des caméras difficile.
  3. L’expérience des réunions hybrides montre qu’elles ressemblent beaucoup à deux groupes avec certains participants se sentant plus «présents» que d’autres. Il est difficile de se sentir comme un groupe unifié.

Nous poursuivrons donc notre planification en nous concentrant sur l’utilisation de Zoom d’une manière qui nous permet d’avoir des séances en petits groupes, autant d’implication que possible des amis localement et d’autres endroits et des pauses suffisantes pour que nous n’aurions pas de surcharge de Zoom.

Nous vous demandons de nous soutenir dans cette tâche difficile et nous nous réjouissons de votre participation à notre YM.

Les détails de l’inscription suivront vers mi-août.

En Amitié,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally

Dag Vrienden,

Met dit schrijven willen we als voorbereidend comité een update geven voor de jaarvergadering van dit jaar.

Zoals jullie weten, ontmoeten we elkaar in het weekend van 9-11 oktober. We hebben de mogelijkheid onderzocht om een ​​‘hybride’ of ‘gemengde’ bijeenkomst te houden, waarbij sommige deelnemers  vanuit het Quaker House en anderen via Zoom zouden deelnemen. We hebben uiteindelijk echter besloten om dat niet te doen. In plaats daarvan houden we de jaarvergadering exclusief via Zoom, om de volgende redenen:

1. De apparatuurkosten voor een hybride meeting zijn hoog. We hebben gesproken met mensen die ervaring hebben met dit soort bijeenkomsten en ook hebben we gekeken naar wat er technisch allemaal georganiseerd zou moeten worden om zo’n meeting mogelijk te maken. Er blijkt ene tamelijk grote financiële investering nodig te zijn en bovendien hebben we geleerd dat een goede technische voorbereiding van een dergelijke vergadering zeer tijdsintensief (waarbij het onzeker blijft of het resultaat technisch gezien wel goed genoeg zal zijn voor een geslaagde jaarvergadering).

2. Gezien de waarschijnlijke afstandsvereisten in het Quaker House, zouden de meeste Vrienden sowieso online moeten deelnemen. De ruimtelijke indeling van het gebouw zal het bovendien zeer moeilijk maken om kamera’s zo op te stellen dat iedereen goed zichtbaar is.

3. De ervaring die al is opgedaan met hybride meetings leert dat ze er al snel toe leiden dat mensen het gevoel hebben dat er twee groepen aan de meetings deelnemen (de online groep en de fysiek aanwezige groep), waarbij sommige deelnemers zich meer ‘aanwezig’ voelen dan andere. Het is moeilijk om je als groep in die omstandigheden als een eenheid te voelen.

We zullen om deze redenen verder gaan met onze planning om de jaarvergadering via Zoom te organiseren. We willen daarbij ook van zogeheten ‘break-out-sessies’ gebruikmaken, waardoor gesprekken in kleinere groepen mogelijk zijn, en hopen zoveel mogelijk Vrienden van lokale groepen en van verder weg bij de jaarvergadering te betrekken. 

We vragen jullie steun bij deze niet zo gemakkelijke taak en we kijken uit naar je deelname aan deze jaarvergadering.

De registratiegegevens volgen midden Augustus.

In vriendschap,

Caroll Ewen

C.J. Van Der Haven

Kate McNally